Both saw other folks at first, no biggie, but i’m the type that is jealous sometimes would get insecure about any of it. The primary issue, but, is because she realized he wasn’t as committed to the relationship as she was (she’s strong, proud and confident, and wouldn’t be his second option) that she recently got into contact with her ex who she was madly in love with and dated for three years, who she dumped. Once we began dating, she said she wasn’t over him, but hadn’t really chatted to him in some time simply to say hello or pleased vacations on event, and had no plans on reconciling with him. Regardless of this, everytime she chatted on a pedestal, describing (in annoying detail) how important he was to her, how they were best friends, and how he is still a topic of conversation In her family and friend group about him she put him. They weren’t in touch though, with the occasional stories so I just swallowed my pride and put u. Final thirty days, he contacted her without warning through text and additionally they “caught up. ” I only learned because We saw their name pop through to their phone the very next day, and she attempted to conceal it from me. With me, explaining that they hadn’t talked in years and wanted to catch up with him after I confronted her, she was very honest. I inquired her in order to let me know as he texted her in the foreseeable future, and she did each time since that initial discussion.